Next time you see someone's life, marriage, family, career, etc. imploding or under attack try not to be a part of the news crew gathering more information to share. Try being part of the rescue effort instead. ---unless I am remembering a quote read long ago, this quote is an original
Today, I spent copious amounts of time seeking answers to questions that weren't important to my life or family. I later realized what a huge waste of time it was and was forced to acknowledge that that time would have been better spent praying for the individuals involved.